What determines personality?

Heredity vs. environment?

or both?

One's personality consists in his/her general profile or in the special combination of psychological traits of character that refer to his/her unique nature. And that unique combination of psychological features leads to the way in  which that specific person reacts and interacts with others or the environment. Moreover, personality includes a set of mental characteristics which reflect the way in which a person thinks, acts and feels.

Healthy Criticism can be used as a good development tool. But criticising one’s behaviour with biased views behind the back is cruel…

I recently ran a competition and one of the candidates happen to be an internal employee which I haven’t worked closely. But for the amount of time that I have known her, she did demonstrated strong pride towards her knowledge and a good employee. I have never sensed arrogant and negative attitudes. So as her previous supervisor constantly praised how great of her performance and employee she is…. at least that’s how I thought…..not until she stormed into my office deviate the whole situation….

Why would you turn up side down the whole story and go behind someone’s back? And the stories she was telling me had no rational, it was non-work related issues but her personal relationship, expectation and disappointment and etc…

I believe in fair practice and equal opportunity. It’s not right to judge or have perception by one’s story. What I have practiced at the interview was based on the merit which reflects on decision making.

John 13:34, " A new commandment I give unto you, that ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another."

Ephesians 4:32 says, "And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you."

Drop your ego, face the facts…

Every day we make choices from basic necessities to life turning decisions. Whether it's appropriate or inappropriate, patient is the only tool to see such result. And its ok to make a mistake... sometimes that's the only way we can learn. The great god made us not as impeccable and he uses our mistakes to grow us. Look back and learn but let's not regret. Life is too short. If you have learned your wrong doing then fix it and look forward...you can't never go back to where you wish to be but if you were to make a choice again you can create a very different ending...